HALF WAY THERE! And some venting!

Hello everyone.. I am now half way there. 20wks and some change now! I only have 17.5wks to go before this little girl will be here. She does not have a name yet that we are sharing. We have decided to finalize the name and announce when she is born. :) As i told my mil tonight it is to keep me from sounding so bitchy when they say they don't like it! lol. So anywho. I have an appt on Tuesday to go to. Then i wil have more details for ya. I also get my 4th shot on Tuesday and then only 13more of them to go! WAHOOO! Those bad boys hurt! We are starting to feel little miss moving more and more which is fun. I have had to take a couple pills but overall we have done good with contrx too. As long as i can keep up the water and liquids then we are all good.

Totally off the topic for a minute. I found out my dog Chyna is going to have babies anyday now. She is a little 10lb thing and i got worried about a swollen abdomen. We have not seen her be in heat now for 2yrs so we thought not possible. Well just like in people never assume it is not possible! LOL! The doc said yep definitely pregnant and due from hours from now to 10days from now. Kinda vague eh! LOL. But i will keep you guys posted on her condition too! :)

So back to my post... Okay so now starts the venting.. Here are something that if i hear one more time i will really scream and be a bitch to someone. (excuse my french)
1. Oh i am so sorry that it is another girl. OKAY PEOPLE IT IS A HEALTHY BABY WHAT IS TO BE SORRY ABOUT????????!!!!!
2. Oh how does dh feel about this? DO YOU REALLY EXPECT HIM TO SAY HE IS PISSED?! HE IS JUST EXCITED TO HAVE A BABY AGAIN! I mean we did suffer 2 LOSSES HERE!
3. Oh i know you were trying for a boy for this one so i guess you have to try again. HELLO PEOPLE WE TRIED FOR A BABY NOT A GENDER! I have heard this countless times. And if they really want to know.. My uterus can't take anymore beatings so i have to have a partial hysto after i am done. Thanks for reminding me that i amgoing to be 24with a partial hysto! I appreciate!
4. I bet you feel better about your loss now! UMM EXCUSE THE HELL OUT OF ME??? No i dont it still hurts and it hurts that you would think that assnine!

Okay so those are just some of the things i heard this weekend. Please people save the freaking comments here. Think with your mind and not your butt. That just hurts. Oh another thing. Some people think that you only need two children for society and that makes a perfect family. I heard the comment by a family member it really rubbed me wrong. I am happy i made the decision about having another baby and being a family of 5 and not 4. Our personal choice is that we liked to have 5. Thanks. Not every american family wants to have just 2 children. YES I CAN AFFORD THEM. So please dont make those comments. But seriously.. I love my children and i can't imagine my life without them. LAst but not least. DO NOT ASK ME IF I AM HAVING TWINS DUE TO IF TREATMENT! That hurts like no other. I lost a twin sac for all of those to know and well frankly i put that aside and dont think about it. So when nimrod wants to throw that comment out there boy oh boy it shuts them up when i tell them!
Okay that is all for now. I will update after my appt. I promise to try and not vent so much.