So as i am trying to gather my mind to put it to rest i was like oh go blog! So I have to tell you about alexus at the dealership today. She is potty training and no potty was available as they are closed on sundays.. She went pee by a tree. She said mom I peed like a dog does. Omg rofl. It was hilarious!
So my update is that I have passed most of my finals. I find out on wednesday for sure. I start back on the 14th of June. I am excited to keep going. Due to the lovely hail storm my van got totaled so that is why i am looking for a car. I think I found one.
Friday k went to the doc. I wanted to yell, scream, and cry. And you know what?! I did all 3 and the doc just said mom you do it! So kenadie's disease is irreversable. Her labs came back poopy again. Ohio said they wont do her test until we get all the money together. Which is poop! So we dont have time like that on our hands. So tuesday I will be using my unlimited cell phone minutes calling a bunch of hospitals. We also will have to know approximate dates. Her pedi will put her in the hospital to get our surgery asap! Our home health is going to send an office person to my house to help me call! Hopefully we will be in the hospital fast! If you can help with any donations for our flights or anything please let me know. We will be there about a week. So anything can help!
Also I need some advice. First I want to ask all my readers a question... What is family to you? What do expect from your family in a crisis of such?
Okay so my advice part.. I have a person in our lives who is in denial about kenadie. And everything seems to be about that person. Why dont I tell them xyz but when i do I cant handle xyz. What do you do about them?! I would love to go deep in this but i have more than enough to deal with but deal with more drama. I honestly dont know what to do. My dh says forget it and dont bother with it. My brain says fix it with my fists and/or mouth. But my heart says alot.. and it really hurts. When i grew up. I stayed the night with my aunts and uncles. I always seen my family. I would like to think we were somewhat close. Now.. ha! So i just want that for my children. I have some people like ab who stays in contact with us. I feel like if i need to i can call anytime. Then my supportive people. But really those who could just pitch in an hr once a month or something. We are not asking you for your life or something. God forbid anyone finds them in our situation. I pray it never happens. so advice on how to handle tis please.
so this week.. be on the look out where we will be going to for surgery. it will be release on the blog first! :)
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What I do with my nutty "family"...placate and ignore as much as possible. When it's DH's family, I tell him about the problem and tell him to address it. When I get beyond the placate and ignore point, I get blunt and take care of it myself. Lather, rinse, repeat, because they are idiots and will inevitably go back to their old habits.
thanks tasha..you know sometimes they are just difficult to deal with.
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